Where to find Love?

Why am I not in love they ask. Jeez! how come that question?! Because I AM in love, pals. In fact with three people. 

I am in love with three people. I am getting the love from three people, not just one. And, I also have sufficient and abundant love for them indeed. And here, I don't even have to remind them every time that I love them and that I'll always be there for them. This love is undoubtable and inseparable. Also, we don't need any exotic vacation to be joyful. Being with each other itself heals and pleases us very well. We also make fun, travel, explore and enjoy but it doesn't be the reason for making our love last. 

Those three people are my father, mother and sibling which is my family. 

The thing I'm trying to say here is that most of us only take family love for granted. Even the ones who love them don't really ADORE them. Then, we go searching for some stranger and demand love from them. Even I was in the same kind of situation during my teenage years. There's been a time when I went for someone trying to make love by neglecting my family and disdaining them. But then came a time when I came through some hard times, betrayals, helplessness, etc. Only then I realized my true lovers who loved me and cared about me no matter how I was. That love in which the PERSON is loved and not THEIR FEATURES is what true love is. 

Now, I feel grateful to have my true lovers along with me. So, I don't gotta find someone new to make love with. 

Such a family love is not that hard for Indians, unlike a few developed nations. MOST of ours' life begin with a solid family. And, for the most part, we stick to our family for decades. So, I thought we all must realize the importance of it. If we have a good family, we don't gotta go search for love somewhere else. We don't gotta buy what we already have, right? So, instead of chasing some stranger, just start to realize your true lovers beside you and love them wholeheartedly. Just look around and you will know that you have a lot already. 

But... All these don't mean that we don't even need a stranger's love(romantic relationship). When the time comes for it, make it. Otherwise, you don't really need it. A family relationship is more than enough. Try to understand it before rushing. I know this would be so obvious for some people but the reason I'm making this blog is that it is not the case for most.